Prita

“So you went there only the 2 of you. And … with a girl? Really? What is so fun about that?”

“What was so fun about going to Bali with a woman and … with 1 woman only? So only the 2 of you driving all around Bali with a map and you said that it was the first time? What kind of Bali trip was that?”

So what?

I just don’t get when suddenly my friend out of nowhere found it odd about vacationing with a friend (which means only 2 persons in that trip) whom is a woman to Bali.

My first answer is … it’s not where you go to, it’s the person you go with. You can go to Maldives or … Europe … or maybe the most romantic place in the world but if you go there with someone who’s not cool, smart, and fun to be with … your vacation is screwed.

I went vacationing with a cool woman who knows what to do and where we should go to in Bali. For the last 2,5 years of my friendship with Miss Mia, she had never disappointed me when it comes about traveling. And this is not my first time.

She is well prepared. She is meticulous. She is very positive. She calculates everything at the exact price. She knows what to buy. She knows where to go.

And though she doesn’t drink, do drug and night clubs, she is still fun to be with. She doesn’t need boozes and amphetamines.

I don’t know, I may sound old and boring. But I really do think that I don’t need to get drunk to have fun. Or dancing on the bar table. Or … scoring by hooking up with the handsome guy whom happened to stay in the same hotel with us. Not at all.

I don’t judge people who did all of the above, but I do make a fuss when my friend judged me … that I’ve wasted my time because I don’t drunk, go to the hottest clubs, and went home with no list of guys’ phone number or even … the fact that I went there with a woman. And just the 2 of us.

“Oohhh I should buy lots of JD … I’m going to Bali”

“I should get some dopes and drugs … I’m vacationing, for Godsakes! What’s the use of going there without getting high?”

“I should get a partner and a box of condoms … It’s Bali, baby! Island of the sex Gods”

:).(Can you guess which one from the lines above that was said by a man? )

I guess some people have their own idealist mind about how a vacation should’ve spent. J. But don’t say that I’ve wasted my time. You weren’t there.

Sometimes vacation is not about the wacky crazy high and drunk or how many orgasms you got from the sex party. Some people vacationing for the view, the food, the beach, and the soothing feeling of getting away from the routines.

And believe me … compared to the orgasms the woman had next to my room at my hotel, my vacation is still awesome.

In my opinion, Miss Mia is doing what she’s good at. Which is travelling. And when you hooked up with someone who’s doing what she or he is good at … you won’t get bored. Even without the booze, hot guys, clubs, and drugs. She is a kind of woman whom plans the work and then work the plan.

The only thing I regret was I forgot to bring my bikini when we were at Karma Kandara beach! That’s all.

The rest was wonderful. And priceless.

Miss Mia is a very good traveling partner. With no doubt, I’m going to say yes if she asked me again. Of course, if I have the budget. *wink*